Celebrate Who You Are
As a rule, we want to make a good impression, we want to paint a picture of ourselves that we are happy to show off. We are looking for attention and confirmation, want to convince our counterpart of us – internally and externally. But we want something else: we want to feel confident and the approval of our partner. Vanity is not a bad thing as long as it stays within an acceptable range, otherwise it can also be a strain on a relationship. Nevertheless, we feel much better when we get our confirmation from ourselves.